Finding Your Style & Curating A Life That Feels Like You
Let’s be real: fashion is more than just putting on clothes — it’s energy. It’s expression. It’s the vibe you carry before you even say a word. And aesthetics? They’re the moodboard of your soul. When you start treating your style like art and your space like a reflection of your inner world, something shifts. You begin to show up in a way that feels so you.
So… what even is aesthetic?
Your aesthetic is the visual language of your identity. It’s not just about outfits or what your Instagram feed looks like (though, yes, we love a good color palette). It’s the feeling people get when they see you, your room, your page, or your life. Think: clean girl chic, romantic coquette, soft luxe, old money vintage, downtown cool girl—the list goes on.
The best part? You don’t have to pick just one.
Curating your personal style
Finding your style doesn’t mean boxing yourself in. It’s about noticing what you naturally gravitate toward. Is it dainty gold jewelry? A crisp oversized blazer? A silk bow in your hair? A vintage leather bag that looks like it has stories to tell? That’s your style speaking.
Start slow. Create a Pinterest board. Save TikToks. Screenshot outfits that make you feel something. Patterns will emerge. Maybe you’re into soft neutral tones with classic shapes. Or maybe you’re all about layering textures, playing with dark romance, and channeling your inner femme fatale.
Once you identify your vibe, getting dressed becomes a creative ritual—not a chore.
Living aesthetically without spending a fortune
Creating a beautiful life isn’t about designer bags or marble countertops. It’s about intention. Light a candle with your morning journal session. Pour your iced coffee into a glass you love. Make your bathroom feel like a spa with soft lighting and your favorite body oil.
Aesthetic living is about romanticizing the everyday.
Organize your closet by color. Style your nightstand like a Pinterest photo. Wear perfume, even if you’re staying home. Set the mood in your space with soft playlists and a cozy throw blanket. Every small detail adds up to a life that feels aligned with the best version of you.
Style is self-love
At the end of the day, your style is a form of self-respect. It’s waking up and saying: I care about how I move through the world. Whether you’re in leggings and a claw clip or a slip dress and kitten heels—it’s all about how it makes you feel.
So here’s your permission slip to dress like the muse you are, light up your space with intention, and let your aesthetic tell your story. Don’t be afraid to evolve, mix vibes, or go against trends. The most magnetic thing about style is when it’s authentic.
Because when you look good and feel good… you show up different. ✨
