Money does not create happiness; instead, it makes options.
When money is an issue, it may appear that having more of it can lead to happiness. A lack of financial problems would undoubtedly contribute to happiness, but having more money does not increase long-term satisfaction. Money, on the other hand, does create options.
In our modern society, the more cash you have, the more options you have. Depending on your skillset, this can be either a good thing or a bad thing. Let’s look at why:
We already know that more money can lead to more problems, significantly since money magnifies who you are. If your everyday personality is uptight and anxious, having more money will not alleviate this; instead, it will amplify it. If you are even-tempered and conscientious about your spending, you will most likely be even more so as your wealth grows.
Working to earn more money is essential, but working to be the healthiest person you can be all around. This way, as your options emerge, you can make the best ones for your life. You can avoid the lottery effect and avoid making costly mistakes that may cost you more than you can afford to lose. You can leave a legacy that will last for generations.
Finding more money will not make you happy if you are struggling with your happiness. Going after wealth is fine, but make sure you also go after what truly makes you happy. You can talk to a counselor or a trusted friend about why you aren’t as satisfied as you’d like, and you can take steps to bring happiness into your life organically. Here are a few things to think about when trying to improve your happiness:
Relationships: Being isolated and disconnected from one’s community is unhealthy. Even introverts require social interaction. Creating a high-quality peer group and participating in activities regularly boost happiness.
Self-care: Taking care of oneself is an essential component of personal happiness. Knowing what you need to do to refuel and recharge your batteries will provide you with the energy you require to manage your happiness.
Purpose: Having a sense of purpose, or living a “purpose-driven life,” as discussed in the popular book, is an excellent way to find happiness. It’s always good to do something for others and feel as if you know why you’re here.
Going after wealth is a worthy and exciting thing to do, but it does not guarantee happiness. Money has no significance on happiness. Having money will undoubtedly provide you with more options; prepare for the endless possibilities by seeking happiness through people, purpose, and self-care.